Hey, it's Tattoo, and I’ve been thinking a lot about love lately. It’s easy to help someone when you’re feeling strong, but when you're struggling too, and you still offer a paw—now that’s real love. I’ve been through this a few times, and I’ve learned that true love isn’t just about giving when it's easy, but showing up when it's tough.
Here are 5 ways to turn struggles into acts of love, even when you’re feeling drained:
Listen first: Sometimes, a listening ear is the best help you can give. If you’re struggling, just being there for someone to vent to can mean the world.
Offer your time: Even if you’re busy or tired, giving someone a few minutes of your time can have a huge impact. It’s not about perfection; it’s about being present.
Be emotionally available: You don’t have to solve someone’s problems to show love.
Let them know you’re there to support them, even in your own moment of struggle.
Help in small ways: Sometimes, the smallest gestures—like offering a hug or running an errand—can be the most powerful acts of love, especially when you’re also going through something tough.
Be honest about your struggles: Share with others that you're struggling too. Vulnerability connects us in ways that pretending we have it all together just can't.
If these methods resonate with you, let’s take it a step further! I recommend reading by Brené Brown. This book will help you embrace vulnerability and show love in ways that truly make a difference. You won’t regret it! Drop a comment if you’ve read it or plan to—let’s talk about it!