Tattoo has learned a powerful lesson: trying to please everyone can leave you empty. It’s okay to lose some people along the way, but never lose yourself. That’s the true essence of self-care.
Here are 5 practical ways to stop losing yourself while trying to make others happy:
Set Boundaries – Learn to say “no” without guilt. Your time and energy are valuable, so don’t feel obligated to say “yes” to everything.
Prioritize Yourself – Make time for self-care, even if it’s just 10 minutes a day. Your well-being should come first.
Embrace Imperfection – Understand that you can’t please everyone. It’s okay to be imperfect; perfection isn’t required for self-worth.
Surround Yourself with Positive People – Stay close to those who support and appreciate you for who you are, not for what you do for them.
Reflect Regularly
– Take time to assess if you're living according to your values or simply trying to meet others' expectations.
If these methods resonate with you, it’s time to take action! And if you want to dive deeper into personal growth, I recommend reading "The Gifts of Imperfection" by Brené Brown. Trust me, it’ll help you embrace your true self!